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    Do You Believe In You?

    June 22, 2017

June 22, 2017

Do You Believe In You?

Do You Believe In You?

Belief in ourselves and what we do is probably the most powerful tool you can have at your disposal. If you believe in yourself you can be pretty unstoppable. However if you don’t believe in yourself then the opposite is very true. You wont get anywhere. You will constantly stop yourself and constantly let other insignificant things become huge things and get in the way.

Ive experienced this a lot. Ive had very little belief in myself for a long time but lately I’ve taken ownership of some issues in my life, I’ve handed back some shit that belongs to other people, and I’ve chosen to give myself the credit i deserve. Ive started being nicer to myself and truly started caring myself. This has shown up in simple things such as making doctor and dentist appointments for things i keep putting off, looking after my teeth better, starting a skincare routine (i have a daytime AND a night time moisturiser!), taking time for myself, just for me, to enjoy my own company, I’ve been eating much better, I’ve been drinking a lot less alcohol as it just does not work for me, and I’ve been going to the gym a lot more. Ive shown myself some serious care recently. And in the end of the day if i don’t care for and about myself, why should anyone else?

See we all have times of self doubt, times of fear, not being sure if we are doing the right things or taking the right actions. Fear of failure is a massive action killer. Take starting a gym programme for example. So many people get the idea and motivation to finally start, but get inside their own heads and freak themselves the fuck out so much that the fear of failure stops them doing anything. But when you think about it logically, even if you fail, you could end up 10 steps ahead of where you are now, fuck even 2 steps ahead of where you are now. What a lot of people don’t realise is thats not failure, thats progress. You actually got started on something, you took action. Yeah you may not have made it as far as you hoped, but you are now in a better position than still sitting in your funk afraid to take any action. Now you just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again. Failure is natural. As much as I’ve let fear of failure hold me back in life its not something we should be afraid of. Its something we should embrace as every failure is a chance to learn something and better ourselves.

This is true for anything in life. Gym programme you were thinking of starting? Business idea you wanted to launch? Just something you wanted to do for you but were afraid of judgement?

Just do it!

Something I’ve wanted to do a lot more lately is provide much more content online. Videos and posts to help as many people as i can. Really put myself out there. But the fear of being judged has held me back with this.

But not any more!

There is a beautiful art in accepting yourself for you, and not giving a flying fuck what anyone else thinks of you.

I do this to help people, so any judgements i may receive are absolutely nothing to do with me. They are other peoples issues. And thats how they will remain.

So lets be honest, what have you been afraid to do for fear of judgement or failure?

Is there something holding you back from taking action?

Go take some action!


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